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5年前我有同一經驗。 是非常難過的。 我從一個朋友學會了與相似的經驗。 最初的少數星期是非常哀傷的。 然後將是OK，直到以後4個到6個月你突然體會她去和不會回來。 但是從這恢復作為至少三年。 我有，因為運載我的母親的頭髮在我的口袋，因此她總是 和我在一起。 沒有其他痛苦沒有憂慮。

當我的兒子在學校有所有成就時我請他在她牌位前邊報告。 一切好像她仍然和我們在一起。 我一次一會兒會對待自己好。 由於這是我認為她喜歡做的。 這是我怎麼處理 。 我希望這有助你。

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I had the same experience 5 years ago. I was very difficult to deal with. I have learned from a friend with similar experience. The first few weeks are very sad. You will then be OK until 4 to 6 months later you suddenly realize she is gone and will not come back. But to recover from this takes at least three years. I have since carry my mother's hair in my pocket so she is always with me. No more pain suffer neither no worry.

when my son has any achievement in school I make he report to her. Everything is just like she is with us, except for physically. I'd treat myself nice once awhile. Because this what I think she likes to do. This is how I deal with this. I hope this help you.

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